Uma ungene umphathi we-softball okufuna ukuhlaziywa kunye nokubona kakhulu ligama, lokhu ilandelayo ngokuqinisekileyo. Ngokulandelani, imigomo yesixhenxe esingabangako kodwa kukho ngenxa yayo ukuba ufune ukuhlaziywa kunye nokubona kakhulu ligama. Ukugcina ibha ingaphandle komoya ayiqhuba ukuthi ungene ukuhamba ngalinye lwezikhungu, kunye nokuthi uzogcina iphi lebola. Kwi-quide leyiyo, sizokubulala ukuthi singafuneka ukuba siphinde isixhenxe sakho sikusithatheliwe ngakwesobukhulu, ukubheka ngokubizwa ukuthi uyayiphi ukuze ulandele amaxhalelo, kunye nokukhetha ukusetyenziswa sokuphela kwisixhenxe sesobukhulu. Sizokucabanga iindlela ezidingekayo eziphumeleyo ukuba usixhenxe sakho siyinkantolo emanyakeni. Lelika selandelayo sasenza indlela yokuba sibuyele kuwo abanye abantu abahambisana!
Uma ufuna ukwenzela umphathi wemfazwe okuthandwa, uphawu lwesikhezo siyilandelani elizokwenza lokhu uzohlola. Ukubona umbhulu ngaphandle kokuthi ungqale kakhulu, kunye nokuba ungenziwayo, kunye nokuba ungene ngegrip elikhoyo. Ungayithengisa inqanawa ngokukhoyo kunye nokuphazamiseka, nokuba ungakwazi ukuthenga ngesinye sokugcina kunye nokuthi ungakwazi ukuthenga ngezihliso ezindala zokungqaleni. Ukuthenga kakhulu kunye nokuthi uthenge ngezihliso ezindala zokungqaleni, kunye nokuthi uzobuyiselela ukuthi ungakwazi ukusiza umculo wakho ukuhlala kwindawo yokushintsha.
Abanye bakhetha ukubamba ibhetshi eninzi ukuze bakwazi ukuyibamba kakuhle baze bazive bhetele kuyo. Ukubamba okuncinci kuvumela abanye ukuba batyibilike ngokukhawuleza, kwaye bathathe intloko yebhadi nge zone ngentshukumo ekhawulezayo. Ukongezelela koku, ukubamba kakuhle kuya kuthintela ukuba ungabi namaqhuma okanye amabala abuhlungu ezandleni zakho, nto leyo eyintloko ukuze udlale kakuhle.
Ukubamba kakuhle kwenza ukwazi ukulawula ibhetshi yakho. Xa ubambe kakuhle, uya kutsho ube bhetyebhetye. Xa ubamba ibhetshi, yibambe ngeminwe yakho kunokuba uyibambe ngezandla. Ngoko iminwe yakho ifanele ijikeleze isibambo, kodwa kufuneka ukwazi ukuyisebenzisa. Bamba ibhetshi kakuhle, ungayifaki kakhulu okanye uyiyeke ikhululeke. Ukuba ubambe ibhetshi ikhululeke kakhulu, iya kukwehla ezandleni zakho xa uyibetha. Ukuba inenyama kakhulu, awuyi kukwazi ukujinga kakuhle okanye uzive umile. Ukulinganisela kakuhle kubalulekile ukuze kubekho ukubetha okukhulu.
Uma ungena enqanawa obhebha kakhulu kunye nokuthanda ukubhokisa ibala, umphandla owenhle okuvunywa ngeminye imithetho ifanele. Ukwenza lokhu kudingeka ukuba uhlaleke ukwakhiwa kwesikhashana senu.
Hlola isibini somzantsi: Usenza ukuphuma kakhulu ukufaka isibini somzantsi kwisebe yakho ngoba lokhu kuyakuziphindaphinda nokuzihambisana. Isiphandla sikuncedisiwe njenge nto yokulula; uzothatha ukuya kwiqhina, iza?
Hlobene namanzi amacayishoni: Hloyisa amacayishoni akukho kuhlu kumva kwisebe yakho ngoba bazokucabanga ukuba zizibulale inqwelo yesiphandla. Ukushintsha kukho kuhlu kufanele.Ukushintsha kuhlu kuhlu kungcono.
Yiqa Ngokuqala
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