Phezulu, iintsholo zomphindo zakho zidala ukusebenzisa isebenti sesithoba kwisebenti zemphindo yethu ngokukhuthaza ukuba bakhumbule ngenkatho kunye nokuzenzakalo kwabo. Isithoba sisebenti sikhona ngokushesha lokungabuyiselwa emfihlweni kwisebenti semphindo. Lento kulandelayo ukuba amaxhosa asebenze ukubuya ngokulandelana nesibheni. Ngoba usithoba ungukho le nto elineyisiphi lokuxhasa kumaxhosa okanye namaninzi, amasebenzi akhona amaphi amanye amagama angqalela ukuba kube nenkcukacha yokusebenza kwisebenti ngokuphela kwezimiso kunye nokuhlola ukusuka kwezinyathelo ezidingekayo. Le ndaba yokusuka, ukuqinisekiswa kwezithoba zomphindo zintsholo, ukuba ungene ngaphi uphinde ubuyeke umthombo olufaneleyo oluyityiswa kwisebenti wakho kunye nokugcina amaqhaweqinisekisi apho akhona kunye nokuthenga kwezinto ezifanayo ukubonisa ukuba ukusetshenziswa kwezi zingene ukuba usebenze kuhlu kunye nokuhlola phakathi.
Uma ufuna ukuthiwe ngokubhebhu kakhulu lokho ephakeme, ukuhambisana nomphendvulo ofaniso olungaphansi wakho kwisezantsi sokushota kuhluke kakhulu. Umphendvulo womphendvulo wamukelwa umphendvulo wakho wesithathu ukuba uhlelwe ngokukhawuleza nokuba ungene ngenqanawe yomphendvulo yakho. Amaphendvulo amahle: Yindlela yokugcina ukuba umphendvulo wakho ushote kakhulu ngemva kokufuneka ukusuka ngokuqondile. Oku kunye nobuncinane obungcono ngokwesikhatsi esibhedleyo. Bayenza izinkinga zokuba umphendvulo wakho ashiye kumgaqabi wakho, oku kungafanele ukuba kusekwiqhutywa nokuba uzifune ukuphuma imigomo emagqugweni apho uzoshintsha umphendvulo. Umphendvulo omncane ungabangela ngokuhlala phakathi komkhonto wakho nokuziphindaphinda kwindawo yokushota nokubhedlayo.
Abantu abaphila nokulawula, kunezinye eziqhelekileyo zokugcina ukubala. Kufuneka ubhalele lokhu olungakho ngenkqubo yakho yomphendulo, ngoba lokhu kulayishwa ukuba uhlale kwiqhutywa elikhoyo. Uza kubona amanye amagcino angamathanga aqhubekayo ukusurela isandla yakho ukuya engenakwenzeka, xa kunye nama-amaqhelekileyo amaqhubekayo yokubuyisela ukuthi izandla zakho zityeleke emini wokuqala. Amanye amaqhelekileyo angena amaninzi futhi uzobuya nokuhlola, xa kunye nama-amaqhelekileyo amancinci, oku kungabonakali kakhulu kwayo kumshado nokuhlola. Kufuneka uthathe amaqhelekileyo amaningi kunye nokubhala lo ngokuwunxibeleleyo ngokukhetha. Ngokwesiphi siphuma akukho umqhelekileyo omthakathisi wayo owenza ukuba ulawule kakhulu ngaphandle kokuthi kube lona lokho ukuba ulawule kakhulu, ukukhetha lo olungakho lokusebenzisa ingxenyetho yakho yayibuyekeza ukuba ulihlabele.
Ayinzi kakhulu ukuthi uqale isebenti esilandelwe, kodwa ufuna ngokukhoyo ukufola iindlela ezidinga lokusebenzisa kumbona ngokubheke. Isiseko sokuqala yiniyo kukuhlela amanxaso akho ebalulekileyo apho alandelwe kusetyenzisweni lakho lomphendvulo wakho. Ukuthi ubheke amandla ajeje, phakathi, nokuba uhlelwe kumboniso olushesha. Ngemuva kokuthi udibanise isebenti esilandelwe esingasetyenziswa ngenqanawe yesetyenziswa, uqale ukubamba kuqala komphendvulo wakho kunye nomphendvulo wesetyenziswa wakho wamanye amaxesha. Usenza isebenti esilandelwe njengamanxaso akho apho akhona. Lokhu libonakale ngokulungile ngoba ukuba asetshenziswa kudla imigomo engaphambili okanye izibophelelo ezizikhono zikwenzelako ukuthi akuzange kube ngenxa yokuba ayitholakele kuyinto engavunyelwe ukubhaliwe. Ngemuva kokuthi usethembe umoya wakho kwindawo yesebenti esilandelwe, sebenzisa umbhenge wasebenti esilandelwe esihlanganiswe ngesebenti esilandelwe sesetyenziswa wakho ukuthola isebenti esilandelwe esiqhelwe. Ngokwesobizo, uzothola ukuba angathumele ngaphandle kumigomo yakho.
Ngokushesha ukusebenzisa isethulo sakho, kungenzi lokuhlala phakathi ngephandle kokuthi uzihlinzelele ukusuka kwezinye zizinto ezincedwa kunye nokuphakamisana kwiselethelo sakho. Ngokulandelayo, umoya wemoto nothwalo otshona kuhluke ngaphandle komhlaba emva kwiselethelo sakho kunye nokuba uzihlinzelela ngomgqatho womoya omncane. Lokhu kulandelana nokuba iselethelo sigcine kunye nokuba sikhankanyiso ukusetshenziswa. Iseselethelo esedluleyo, okanye elishumayelwe ukuphakama yokuqinisekisa, lento efaka ukuthi uza kuyenza ukubuyeleya. Ngokulandelayo, usetyenziswa sokungena, funa ukubheka iselethelo (ngemuva kokufika kwemanzini wezilanga) ukubona ukuba kudinga ukubuyeleywa. Ukuyenza ukusetshenziswa kunye nokuhlola kuhluke kwiselethelo sakho.
Ukugcina umsebenzi wakho wesithathu sithathe ukuthi uhleli lokuphendula isithathu sesirheli seTennis ngokubonakali, okungcono kakhulu ukwenzela ulwazi oluhle. Ngenxa yalokho, ungacala ngezinye izinsuku ezidingekayo ngokuba ungene lokulandelana nokuthi ufuna ukuhamba khona. Ukuthi kungene lokulandelana nokuthi usetyenziswa esihle, lapho usetyenziswa isithathu sentsha, isirheli sakho asikukho ukusuka kwezandla zakho, uzokususa ukulinganisa ukuxhasa. Uyahlale ngempumelelo yokusebenza yasebe yakho kulokhu ukuthi angayazi ukuthi uzixhasa. Ngokuqondile, ungazama ukufumana amaxwebhu nokunye ukudibanisa imibuzo akho ngokubanjwa.
Yiqa Ngokuqala
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